Reclaiming Independence and Inspiring Others

Recovering from any sort of setback can be a long journey. Sometimes the loss of independence and ownership over your life can make the path even more difficult. Fortunately, Bob’s experience at Ecumen Detroit Lakes has been different.

“When I first got here, they would do everything for me, but that has changed a lot,” said Bob. “Now it’s to the point where I can do things myself and it makes me feel like I have a say in what I do every day.”

As part of Ecumen’s initiative to focus on residents’ abilities rather than limitations, Bob has worked with the team to assume more responsibility and independence. He also puts himself through an extensive physical and occupational therapy program for up to two and a half hours every day. 

“It’s not easy but it makes me feel good because I’m getting better at it,” he said. “They have a schedule for me that is set up but I can do most of the things on my own. They’re there if I need help with anything but it’s nice to be able to do most of it for myself.”

Bob says when you start out in a care community it can be difficult, but having the opportunity to make his own choices has helped a lot. He has even been able to mentor another man who came to Ecumen Detroit Lakes after a stroke, offering advice and helping raise the man’s spirits.

“It was fun. It made me feel that I was doing something for somebody else and that was important,” said Bob. “I’m not here just for me, I’m here to help people that are going through the same thing that I’m going through.”

The Ecumen team has enjoyed seeing Bob rise to new challenges. Bob says having the opportunity to make his own decisions is giving him confidence for whatever the future holds.